It’s Okay To Be Selfish


It’s ironic that the person you tend to neglect the most is the person that’s most important, namely yourself! I think it’s safe to say that most of us are very guilty of not being selfish enough and being too selfless and putting ourselves out too much for other people, this can sound like a good trait on the surface and it will make you lots of friends and make you well liked but trust me it is a very bad habit.

It’s okay to be helpful but when you are constantly wearing yourself thin and grinding yourself into the ground because you are too afraid to disappoint someone that’s when it becomes an issue. Most of us need to learn that it’s alright to say no instead of running yourself into the ground and potentially causing health issues down the line.

Sometimes the best thing you can do is give yourself a bit of TLC and have a weekend or even just a day where you concentrate on yourself and yourself alone. Do things that make you happy and put a smile on your face. Life is long, for the majority it’s safe to say you’re going to be alive for a very long time so have some time enjoy it.. anyway i’m going off topic and I think that point should be a blog post on it’s own so I’ll wrap this up before it drags on.

“You cannot serve from an empty vessel” – Eleanor Brownn

It’s amazing how true that quote is! If you want to help others, help yourself first!! Anyway thank you for reading this one as mentioned I will soon have some very exciting news that i’ll tell you about but not everything is sorted out yet. Feel from to share this post or let me know what you think in the comments. I’ll catch you guys later on in the week! Ciao!


“People Keep Asking Me If I’m Back….”


“… And I hadn’t really had an answer, but yeah I’m thinking I’m back.” If you didn’t guess that’s a reference from John Wick, brilliant film and a definite must watch if you are into action movies!

Anyway! Greetings! After an extended break I am once again back and this time I’m back for good! So where have I been I hear the masses cry! Well honestly? I’ve just been really busy and I ran out of inspiration to be honest. The past year has been pretty hectic, firstly I was finishing up at college so had to focus on getting all my coursework finished then after that I have been working, studying a personal training course and got myself a girlfriend!

So I’m finally back? Yes, things in my life are starting to change and I am working on sorting lots of things out in my life, I have been doing a lot of thinking just recently and I am finally going to take action! I currently work in retail and it’s no massive secret I don’t enjoy it so I am currently doing a personal training course online that I believe I will finish around May time, then I am working on a secret project with a good friend of mine that I am currently working hard on and I am determined to make take off.

Now I hate to leave you guys on a cliffhanger but this is not the post I’m going to reveal this secret project however I should be able to reveal it next week once a couple of my plans have come into action but it’s something I’m really excited to reveal and I think its something a lot of people will be interested in but again more on that when I create the post on it which should be coming probably next week.

“We are who we choose to be”

Right I think I’ll leave this one here, short and sweet! I’m happy to be back, it’s really nice to be back writing again, you can expect many more posts coming and some really exciting news for me and hopefully some of you probably next week. I think I’m going to be playing around with the blog over the next few weeks and trying different things to see what works and what doesn’t and possibly expand out of my current topics but we will see! Anyway I will see you guys again soon. Ciao!