The number one reason people don’t do things they want to do is because they care what other people think, this prevents them from reaching their goals, taking risks or living to their full potential because they are so terrified of being judged.
One thing that will benefit anybody reading this, is learning the subtle art of not giving a f*ck, if you learn this I guarantee your confidence will go through the roof, you will be much happier and you will achieve so much more than you would have achieved if you keep caring about what people think.
Truth is, in a persons mind they are the main character in their story, everyone else is just a side character, people do not care about what those side characters are doing anywhere near as much as people think.
It takes practice but stop caring what other people think. Let’s have an example of what i’m talking about, say you post a picture of yourself on Facebook, say you are showing a birth mark that you are incredibly self conscious about, if someone looks at that and says/thinks “Ew that’s ugly why would they post that” that says much more about them than it does about you, it shows you are confident enough to show off your flaws and your imperfections whereas that person who insulted you is secretly insecure about part of their own body image and doesn’t even have the confidence to show it off themselves so they decide to insult you to make themselves feel better.
Really who cares what people think, what does it matter what anyone says about you, if they compliment or admire you for whatever you are doing then groovy but if they try to insult you that just shows their own insecurities. When someone see’s something they are jealous of or they are insecure about they are inclined to get defensive and enter attack mode and insult you and try to put you down to make themselves feel better, don’t give them that satisfaction.
If you really want to do something then do it! Don’t let anyone stop you from following your dreams or posting that picture on social media or starting up that YouTube channel! F*ck what other people think. On that note I am going to leave you with this:
“What other people think of you is not your business. If you start to make that business your business, you will be offended for the rest of your life” – Deepak Chopra”
Sorry I didn’t post yesterday, I didn’t have the time to write a post that was good enough quality before I had to go to work. Thank you ever so much for reading this one and I encourage you to start making a conscious effort to care less about what other people think, what’s the worst that can happen? If you enjoyed this one please like it and maybe leave me a comment to give me your opinion. I post twice a week every week so feel free to follow me to keep up to date with my content, thanks again! I shall see you next Tuesday. Ciao!